Do I offer gay erotic massage?

The first thing to say is that although a lot of my work includes touch, I’m not a gay erotic massage therapist, and I don’t offer massage in the traditional sense.

Sessions with me are more about learning: learning new skills for pleasure, and learning new ways to connect with authentic, healthy touch - both in your own body, and in a relational way when you're body to body with another man.

What’s the difference between what I offer and a gay erotic massage?

When we work together it’s always a co-created experience, and the more you can put into it and engage with it, the more you’ll get out of it. This is very different from a traditional massage experience.

Sessions with me can include touch which is erotic in intention, or touch which includes the genitals (learn more about how I work with touch).

However, it’s important to note that what I offer is primarily a learning space rather than simply an experiential space (learn more about the difference between learning and experiencing).

Why consider something different?

It can be a wonderful experience having someone else put your desires first, and dedicate time and care to focus on your pleasure.

But most massages are about someone else deciding how you should be touched. And in a gay erotic massage there are often a lot of assumptions about what your body will find pleasurable.

Instead, what if YOU got to choose exactly the right kind of touch for you at every moment?

The Bossy Massage is a great way to experience and practice this, and I include it in many of my sessions.

Working this way with me is not only an opportunity to be touched exactly the way you want, but you also get to learn more about pleasure in your own body on a deeper level!

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