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4 tips for better intimacy

Better intimacy happens when you’re able to feel more. Learn about 4 simple but effective ways you can improve the intimacy in your interactions.

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All Change Please

The popular perception is that inner connection is all about remaining perfectly still, not even moving if a mosquito bites… but is it?

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Sound

If you find yourself repeatedly restricted from safely expressing how you truly feel then sooner or later you’ll learn to stop listening to your body.

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What Kind of Wanker Are You?

How much pleasure do you get from your self-pleasuring? If you’re looking for a better masturbation experience here’s how you can start…

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Why you don’t need a Valentines date to feel loved

Valentines day would have you believe the path to pleasure requires a partner. But who needs a lover when you can love yourself!

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Why getting naked can help you feel better

Once you get beyond the inhibitors of shame and body image there are good reasons why spending time naked actually makes you feel better.

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Gay touch relaxation – turn yourself on, switch yourself off

Many gay folks struggle with anxiety or stress – but did you know you can use touch to help your relaxation process?

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Movement

Embodied movement pioneer Gabrielle Roth had the right idea when she observed that “the fastest way to still the mind is move the body”